My husband and I have no problem communicating – except about one subject. I have a higher libido than him, but have a hard time telling him when I want to have sex. Maybe it’s some inner shame for having a higher libido than my husband, but it would have to be entirely subconscious because thinking and talking about it, I don’t feel that way. If not, when he is relaxed, try talking to him about what exactly turns him on. Armed with that information, focus on creating an erotically charged environment to which he is likely to respond.

Source: The Guardian June 08, 2022 17:17 UTC